This April, National Volunteer Month coincides with two milestones: the 20th anniversary of the One Good Deed (OGD) program, and the 10th anniversary of its home at JF&CS.
OGD matches seniors with friendly visitors for companionship, a seemingly simple gesture that carries real impact when you consider that over 1/3 of Americans 65 and older report feeling lonely or isolated. Those feelings aren’t just difficult; loneliness and isolation can result in a 50% increase in developing dementia, and a significantly increased risk of premature mortality.
Programs like OGD are important protective factors for the mental and overall health of older adults. But just like any relationship, the matches are most successful when there’s a real connection. Thanks to the matchmaking skills of Viv Kurland, Program Director, and Laura Marcus, Program Coordinator, the matches often move beyond companionship, with volunteers often becoming like family to their matches, and receiving as much joy as they give.
The talented matchmakers behind OGD: Viv Kurland, Program Manager, and Laura Marcus, Program Coordinator.
Susan & Ellie
Before meeting her One Good Deed (OGD) match, Susan, Ellie often felt “lonely.” She’s led a full and interesting life, but like many people, “I always worked a lot and didn’t have a lot of time to develop friendships.” After her husband passed, that sense of isolation grew. When she shared her feelings with an acquaintance, they encouraged her to reach out to One Good Deed, and that simple step began to change everything.
At the same time, Susan was looking for a personal, one-on-one way to give back through JF&CS. Viv and Laura matched her with Ellie, and their bond developed quickly.
At first, their connection was rooted in shared interests: art, good food, politics, books, and dogs. Over time, they became kindred spirits. “Ellie is an integral part of my week,” says Susan. “I don’t see her as a ‘match,’ she’s just my friend.”
Like any strong friendship, Susan and Ellie support each other in practical ways. A few years ago, Ellie suffered a serious fall that left her with broken ribs and required extended hospital stays. Susan was there consistently, offering moral support and companionship, while her husband Jon helped with hospital transfers and mobility around the house. Ellie, in turn, supported Susan when her father passed. Later, when Susan and Jon downsized and moved to a condo near Ellie, “she was my sherpa, guiding me about where to shop, the best places to eat. We even see the same hair person now,” says Susan.
Susan and Ellie at one of their favorite places: Waffle House!
“Susan is like my family,” says Ellie.
Susan echoes the sentiment. “We've both experienced big, painful things. Ellie’s attitude of ‘keep plugging away,’ watching her fall and break four ribs and fight her way back, is so inspirational. The way she approaches life and moves through the world, she fights for every bit of life she can. I am so enamored of her, and I’ve gained so much. It has all been worth it.”
One Good Deed matches not only help seniors feel seen and supported, but also create symbiotic, lasting friendships. As Linda, another OGD volunteer who has been matched with Loretta for ten years, reflects, “There are so many interesting and helpful experiences older people have had, and hurdles they’ve overcome. I think it gives you an idea that many of the problems you have in life are minor, and you, too, can overcome them. It brings a new perspective.”
One Good Deed is one of many incredible volunteer opportunities we offer at JF&CS. From one-time opportunities to ongoing connections, we have a fit for every schedule and stage of life. Join us today on our mission to transform lives!